Chill And Chill

In the movies, especially in romantic comedies, the concept of the Soul Mate is never a thing that grows old. The idea that there is one person out there in the world, out of millions of others, who is meant to be with you, who will make your life complete, is not only appealing but can become a lifelong obsession for anyone.

As you go through life, you become disillusioned sometimes. The concept of destiny and ever after becomes stuff that exists only in the imagination and in the unreal world. Such a realization is not unfounded. However, it does not mean that happiness, in itself and with someone who may not be perfect but is suitable, cannot exist. A Soul Mate is someone that only a few people get to meet.

Sometimes, it is a concept that these very people apply to their partner just because they were able to work out their relationship in such a way that they think that they were destined to be together. In reality, they may be just those lucky couples who get to understand and relate with each other in the way that other people can't. It has often been said that love alone is not enough. It is sometimes also a question of temperament and compatibility. It is a question of the strength of the bond created by love, compassion, and respect. You don't find a Soul Mate because he or she exactly looks like the person you have created in your head. Physical attraction can only last for as long as the person still have those attributes, which we have to admit will fade through time.